Date a girl who thinks. Find a girl who sees the world beyond her street, beyond her friends, beyond her television, and beyond the way she was raised. Find the girl who knows female worth is not merely limited to her ability to be sexy, pious, fertile, or obedient. She opens her eyes and sees the world; examining and questioning everything.
Date a girl who sees dirt and politics for what they are and doesn't fear mixing it up. She makes a stand when she sees something wrong. She forms her own opinion instead of adopting one. She checks facts. She's not afraid to call your bullshit and she's adult enough to take a flag on hers. She knows we all tell ourselves lies from time to time. She also knows a person's actions speak louder than words and she has no trouble finding the actions that betray liars and cheats.
Date a girl who isn't sheep. She doesn't join choirs blindly. She doesn't care if a way of doing something is traditional. If it causes harm, it needs to be fixed. She can find solutions and convince others to try them. Date a girl who produces an elegant analysis and a powerful argument. She stands for change and she helps it along.
Date a girl who sees dirt and politics for what they are and doesn't fear mixing it up. She makes a stand when she sees something wrong. She forms her own opinion instead of adopting one. She checks facts. She's not afraid to call your bullshit and she's adult enough to take a flag on hers. She knows we all tell ourselves lies from time to time. She also knows a person's actions speak louder than words and she has no trouble finding the actions that betray liars and cheats.
Date a girl who isn't sheep. She doesn't join choirs blindly. She doesn't care if a way of doing something is traditional. If it causes harm, it needs to be fixed. She can find solutions and convince others to try them. Date a girl who produces an elegant analysis and a powerful argument. She stands for change and she helps it along.
Date a girl who does for herself. She doesn't need some other half because she's whole already. She doesn't fear being alone. She won't cling. She won't call eighteen times a day, nor will she demand that you call her. She doesn't spend all her money on designer need-nots. She won't ask you what you think of her outfit, or whether something makes her look fat. She doesn't need your approval. That fact you stick around and enjoy each other's company is validation enough. You'll find reasons to stay. She can thrill you without even intending to. Just wait until she does!
Find the girl who follows her own passions and sets her own goals. When her newness wears off, she still has a life of her own. She'll work to make it all happen, which keeps her fascinating, different and alive. She won't feel threatened by your job or your friends. She won't demand that you give her all your time simply because you're dating her. She has her own thing going on. She may not be as available as you'd like, but she's out making a difference. You're welcome to join in, or make your own change in the world. If your cause is just, she'll respect that, too.
A well-behaved woman rarely makes a difference. Date the girl who knows this and works to make the world a better place.
Find the girl who follows her own passions and sets her own goals. When her newness wears off, she still has a life of her own. She'll work to make it all happen, which keeps her fascinating, different and alive. She won't feel threatened by your job or your friends. She won't demand that you give her all your time simply because you're dating her. She has her own thing going on. She may not be as available as you'd like, but she's out making a difference. You're welcome to join in, or make your own change in the world. If your cause is just, she'll respect that, too.
A well-behaved woman rarely makes a difference. Date the girl who knows this and works to make the world a better place.